Parental Alienation Education with Lee PAS Foundation

Lee PAS Talkshoe Tonight 9pm EDT with Bessie Hudgins aka:MeMa!

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Episode: EPISODE50 - The Lee PAS Foundation with Bessie Hudgins Aka MeMa!

Founder of Three Sides to Every Story, Inc., Bessie Hudgins to be a guest on TheLee P.A.S. Foundation Talkshoe Bessie Hudgins ********** Katrina Daniels Lee Iwould like to invite everyone to join me on The Lee P.A.S. Foundation TalkshoeThursday Oct. 01, 2009 at 9:00 PM EST. Call or sign in Thursday night Oct. 01,2009 at 9pm EST www.talkshoe.com or dial 724-444-7444 Talkcast ID 26868.

Ourshow will explore Parental Alienation from an old woman's (victim's) view point.Katrina and I are gonna take a stab at giving you an idea of what Alienationdoes to a child from the beginning back in the late 1940's and travel the roadfor 61 years. I am a firm believer in experience being the best teacher, andeven though I would not wish these life experiences on anyone, I do believe that my experiences have made me who I am. I have also come to the conculsion that ifyour life feels like a bushel and a peck of lemons, you should take those sourlemons and make lemonade. My lemonade will be to open up my life longexperiences and share things that I pray will lead to helping those that struggle trying to understand. My Mother and I shared a bond that would bring ustogether in her last years. We never lived together when I was a child, thus shenever had a say in my raising, but the love we shared while living through allthe alienation and the bond she was able to implement in my first 2 years oflife was strong enough to bring us together before she was gone. I THANK GODALMIGHTY FOR THOSE 12 YEARS. So many times while we struggle to get through ourlives, we don't have a clue where some of our thoughts and beliefs come from. Inmy case it was a bond that my Mother gave the both of us before I was taken fromher. I wasn't taken by CPS or a jealous ex...my mother and I went separated byher second husband and his mother...as well as her very own mother. My Dad decided before I was born that he didn't want to be with us, in the middle of ahard winter in 1948 he kissed my mother good bye and left for work...never to beheard from again. I found his grave in Greasy Creek, Ky. after I was grown andhad 2 sons of my own. FINDING THE GRAVE OF A MISSING PARENT YOU HAVE NEVERMET...IS A HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE...NO ONE DESERVES TO FIND A MISSING PARENT ORGRANDPARENT THE WAY I FOUND MINE...NO ONE! I know that education in these areasof alienation and abuse can give psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist andcounselors an edge on how to handle families with these problems. However, I amof the firm belief that no one can fully understand the effects of alienation unless they themselves have lived through it and come out on the other side. I feel as if I have come out on the other side and I want to spend the rest of mylife trying to help families understand and live with what has happened to them...but most of all, I want to help parents and grandparents understand whychildren of alienation do what they do. God Speed Everyone!Call ID: 26868

Personal Message from the Host:Guias, the 18 yr old young man who was severely alienated, will be on the boardas well tonight for any questions you may have. Costs nothing but your time andopen minds!

Parental Alienation Often, one of the most damaging effects of a difficult,highly contested divorce is parental alienation. Parental alienation occurs whenone parent purposefully encourages a child to disengage with the other parentand/or denigrate the other parent. Typical methods include: badmouthing theparent, denying visitation rights through geographical relocation or othermeans, using the psychological threat of detachment, and withdrawing affectionand other tactics. The issue is extremely complex and difficult to assess --especially initially. For pre-school age or younger children, the harmfuleffects of parental alienation may not be apparent for several years. Newresearch studies showing the negative psychological effects of parentalalienation syndrome or PAS are receiving much greater attention as the divorcerate in the United States continues to exceed the 50% mark, and more and morefamilies are affected. Parent and Grandparent visitation have become commonconcerns. The courts recognize with increasing frequency the importance of thegrandparent relationship. Using experience and creativity, to find solutions tocreate and legally maintain grandparents relationship with their grandchildren.In a parental alienation situation when one parent uses tactics of hostilitywith a child, the dynamics of custody changes. A new custody evaluation may bein the best future interests of the child. Enlisting the legal advice of anexpert can help a parent with an alienated child evaluate their options andpursue the proper course of action. The most qualified family law attorneys arefamiliar with the latest research on the topic, have an extensive network ofexperts in the fields of child developmental psychology, the sociology ofrelationships, and have the knowledge of the relevant legal principles to assistthem in protecting and defending a parent's right to pursue a healthyrelationship with their child. It is vitally important that these matters arehandled with extreme sensitivity, care and professionalism to ensure the bestinterests of the child. The welfare of children is of utmost importance.Frequently, the children are forgotten as parents fight for child custody rightsand wage child custody battles. Responsible parents have the right to have apositive, loving relationship with their children. And, children deserve to growup in a psychologically healthy relationship with their parents. Too often childvisitation rights become the issues former spouses use to vent their anger andhostility. As research suggests, emotional dysfunction for the child can followhim or her far into their future relationships with others.

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